I try to aviod putting labels on other perople, myself, and relashonships. Some lables are okay. And they are okay when used to define. However, when i label something i find its restricting. Im going to use "best friends" as an example. Labeling someone as your best friend, esspecially when they label you as the same thing, can be comforting. However, soon you will be so atached to that comfort you will run after it. Things happen. You guys arn't so close anymore. Haing the lable "BFF" stuck to your forheads is gonna make it painful and hard. However if youre not commited to the person, you can break apart easily and slip together just as. Am i making any sence here?
Oh yeah! I know i can't spell. And i know i make a lot of typoes. Begging forgivness!
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ok, sorry, but i kindly disagree. I think that you're friends with someone, and then you become really really close to them and you become best friends BEFORE you call them your best friend and if something as simple as a title is gonna screw you guys up, there was something wrong with that friendship wouldn't ya think?
ReplyDeleteAnd "best friend' is not a contract, nor a proposal for ever-standing marriage. It simply means, you are my close friend, which could change at any time. People, in their existance and souls, are in constant movement, and like the swing set, .... you know what? can i have permission to blog a response to this?? thnx...